the doty premise
The purpose of life is to live it, to experience it fully.
Life occurs in the moments, your conscious presence is optional, it occurs anyway
the conditioning
It is your life, participating in it consciously, enriches your experience of it.
It does not require esoteric gymnastics. It is not a zero-sum game.
You can start from where you are with what you have. It is not too late, neither is it too early, you are where you are.
If you grew up in the company of humans, you have been conditioned. Maybe you like it, maybe you don't. But conditioned you have been. Rarely is this conditioning ill of intent, on the contrary, its primary purpose is your survival. But you want to do more than survive, you want to thrive.
Conditioning comes in the form of DNA, culture, education, and a billion micro-doses through the course of your life. In this moment as you read this, you are a unique collection of all the information and matter you have inherited and consumed.
your identity
This unique result is codified as beliefs and patterns in your body and mind, most of it is encoded in the subconscious. One conscious and visible manifestation of this is your identity.
Your identity is like a dropped anchor, it can save you from crashing into the rocks, but it can also hold you back when it’s time to sail. If you haven’t learned to draw up your anchor at will, you can still sail, but mostly in circles. This creates an illusion of progress
Your identity is unique, it’s a summation of your sub-identities of gender, nationality, profession, relations, personality and so many more.
be in flow
If you are alive with the full experience of life, you are in stable and long-lasting form of the flow state, where time seems relative and you can achieve things that otherwise seem impossible.
Prescribed practices and interventions for achieving this state are overwhelmingly numerous, from religion to science, from practice to philosophy and each method and its proponents are often convinced that they have the right one.
But here is the thing, they could all be correct, they may have found the right one for them! That does not mean it is the right one for you, if you are like the vast majority, this can be a confusing maze with miraculous claims and underwhelming results. You can be left sailing in circles for decades.
the doty way
your context is unique, and it requires the right sequence of nudges and interventions. Some of the things this approach can solve:
A holistic approach: well being in one area (eg. health) will have a bearing on another (eg. work). No single expert (doctor/counselor) is empowered or equipped to look at the full picture.
Help you discover and explore methods and interventions that you may not know existed
Fun and Nudges: Often these journeys can get very esoteric or too serious, little nudges based in fun are more likely to move things along
The right companions can make the journey fun and easier, meet others who have the same intent as you.
Not based on one fixed ideology or guru, why pick one when you can learn from a thousand. We work with scientists and masters; you chose your unique mix.